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"Scars and Stories: Finding Beauty in Our Brokenness"
Embracing Imperfection: Reflections on "Broken Like Me" I got to watch "This Is Me", and the first time I heard the song "Broken Like Me"...

Damien Blaauw
Jul 1, 20243 min read


A Nation in Decline: The Unfulfilled Promise of Post-Apartheid South Africa
From Glory to Decay: The South African Journey As I sit here, reflecting on the South Africa of my childhood, I am struck by the stark...

Damien Blaauw
Jun 28, 20248 min read


Transform Your Life with Wisdom from 'Outwitting the Devil'
Reading "Outwitting the Devil" by Napoleon Hill was a transformative experience for me. This book, written in 1938 but unpublished until...

Damien Blaauw
Jun 28, 20243 min read


"Love's Last Stand: Why We Save Dying Relationships"
Life and death are the two forces that define our existence, and they are the ultimate dichotomy, the beginning and the end, the alpha...

Damien Blaauw
Jun 24, 20243 min read


"When Empathy Backfires: The Hidden Dangers of Gentle Parenting"
Are We Raising Spoilt Brats and Monsters? As a parent, I've always been intrigued by the various parenting philosophies that promise to...

Damien Blaauw
Jun 21, 20243 min read


Cultivating Gratitude & Detachment: My Takeaways from "Think Like A Monk"
In my quest for personal growth and understanding, I read Jay Shetty's "Think Like a Monk," a book that has profoundly reshaped my...

Damien Blaauw
Jun 14, 20244 min read


"The Art of War": Timeless Wisdom for Modern Living
"The Art of War" by Sun Tzu was a transformative reading experience for me, though written over 2,500 years ago, this ancient Chinese...

Damien Blaauw
Jun 12, 20244 min read


Curating My Circle: A Journey of 48 Laws...
Upon stumbling on Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power," I was both intrigued and skeptical. The book promised wisdom on navigating...

Damien Blaauw
Jun 10, 20249 min read


Navigating the Divide: My Internal Struggle with Relationships
Love had always seemed like a beautiful, chaotic mess that could bring unimaginable joy or profound heartache. I stand at the crossroads...

Damien Blaauw
Jun 7, 20244 min read


Timeless Lessons From a Pop Culture Book
In the ever-evolving landscape of modern relationships, John Gray's "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus" has been an invaluable...

Damien Blaauw
Jun 6, 20244 min read


Love: Striking the Balance
Over the years, my journey through relationships has been nothing short of a rollercoaster ride. Each relationship, each experience, has...

Damien Blaauw
May 31, 20245 min read


2024 Our 1994?
The recent South African National Elections have left me with a mix of emotions and thoughts that I feel compelled to share. Observing...

Damien Blaauw
May 30, 20243 min read


Lessons I Learnt from Divorce
Divorce is one of those life events that you never truly understand until you've gone through it yourself. It's a maelstrom of emotions,...

Damien Blaauw
May 23, 20245 min read


Navigating the Storm
Life has a way of throwing curveballs, and over the past few years, I've been hit by more than my fair share. As a colored male in South...

Damien Blaauw
May 17, 20245 min read


The Perils of Parental Blindness to Children's Bad Habits
Parenting is one of the most challenging journeys life has to offer. Every day, I strive to balance nurturing my children's growth while...

Damien Blaauw
May 16, 20243 min read


The Silent War...
Relationships are supposed to be our safe havens, the places where we can be our most authentic selves. Yet, I’ve learned that this ideal...

Damien Blaauw
May 15, 20243 min read


The Great "I Love Mom" Deception
Every year, my social media feeds are flooded with elaborate and emotive Mother’s Day status updates. Photos of smiling mothers,...

Damien Blaauw
May 15, 20243 min read


Navigating the Corporate Jungle: 10 Lessons from Climbing, Falling, and Rising Again
I had cause to reflect on my journey through the corporate world, and I can't help but feel a whirlwind of emotions. I experienced the...

Damien Blaauw
Apr 26, 20243 min read


Embracing Solitude: A Journey to Self-Love and Inner Peace
As I sit here, surrounded by the gentle hum of ambient music and the haunting melodies of the wind whirring outside, I am struck by the...

Damien Blaauw
Apr 19, 20243 min read


Navigating the Maze of Segmented Communication in Blended Families: A Personal Reflection
Reflecting on the intricacies of communication within blended families, I am struck by the complexity of it all. It's like navigating...

Damien Blaauw
Apr 19, 20243 min read
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